A follow up that I didn't see coming. So my previous post was about my partner's Mum dying unexpectedly, it was her funeral yesterday and my birthday today. As context, we live interstate but have come back to our home town where all our family is for the funeral. 

I'm NC with my uBPD Mum and last I heard all her teeth had fallen out or had to be removed and my grandfather was financially supporting her. Yesterday I called my grandma to let her know I was around in case she saw me, but that I wasn't up for a visit given the circumstance. She was lovely but told me my grandfather was upset I didn't see him last time I came home, never mind he visits my city frequently and I never hear from him. Also a few times his (upsettingly young) wife has gotten drunk and dumped on my for choosing not to have kids when they can't conceive (respectfully,  🤮). I also have an adult brother who is disabled and in full time care. Dad said she hasn't seen my brother in years but there's nothing stopping her. He hasn't blocked her number and she's allowed at the house. 

So. My mum is blocked everywhere. In 2019 she got my partner's number from my voicemail and asked him to tell me she wanted to talk to me. From his description she sounded manic, like that scary big energy. Back to today, she's texted me from a different number, for the first time. This didn't feel like a difficult way to get around NC so I'm surprised she hasn't done it before. But that makes the timing suspicious AF to me.  Also, her grammar is suddenly better. Maybe I'm being paranoid but I feel like grandma told grandpa told maybe his wife but probably mum, and someone has helped her write this. Anyway. Please remind me that she is a turd and this is a turd of a message with turdy subtext.

Unexpected text has me reeling.