A friend that keeps commenting on things i do or say, but ends up doing them themselves.

Hello everyone, this is my first time posting on Reddit, but there is a first time for everything.

Let’s start with the fact that i have been friends with Lorraine for a year. At first we had our differences in aspects in life, relationships, music taste etc… Wich i don’t mind, but it has come to my attention that she comments ( i would even say judge ) on my choices but ends up saying / doing the same stuff later. For example : I would tell her i’d really like to be a traditional housewife , and at first she tells me “ Wouldn’t that be boring? I would rather work.”

thats her opinion and i don’t have any problems with that, but i stood by my opinion and a week later i see her reposting/ commenting on a tiktok video how she wants to be a housewife and a traditional woman. And its little things like that, I told her i hated modern houses once, ( she told me she liked them first ) And when she sees a tiktok about it, or hears me talking about the fact that i dislike them, she switches up. And i know it shouldn’t bother me so much but it does bother me a lot. This may sound like an arrogant thing to say, but it isn’t the first time ‘ friends ‘ sorta copy me. But i dont want to drop her because i feel like that would be overreacting. And i just really need some advice:)

Thanks for reading this and maybe even responding!!