what would you do ? M 21 F 21

i've been with my bf since we were 15 we both 21 now. i lived in nyc the first 2 years of our relationship and then i moved to Florida where he's from and we live with his mom. (who's awesome) we have a studio apartment thats disconnected from the main house so we have our own space.

when we first got together he was a hard working student and also had a job. but when covid hit he quit his job before the lock down happened and started smoking w33d & drinking a lot (mind you he's 17) i didn't like the drinking at all bc one he was too young and he couldn't hold his liquor at all but it didn't help when he & his mom would drink together so that caused a lot of issue. so near the end of 2020 i told him he needs a job. i been working during the pandemic at publix so i was the only one bringing in income at the time. Since i didn't have my license he would take me to and from work and anywhere i needed and in return i would pay the car insurance and at the time we were financing a ps5 & i oaid 200 a month for 12 months (i know wtf 🤧) so he would get jobs here and there and wouldn't last more then 2 months. now fast forward to 2021 i told him i can't do it by myself i need help. i can't keep paying car insurance (not my car didn't have my license at the time ) playstation, phone bill. I was financially & mentally burned out all while going to hs to get my diploma. And he just has 1000 excuses.

He has now developed anxiety and doesn't want to be in people faces so he doesn't want to work in customer service.. so he's very picky with jobs especially since he doesn't have his diploma yet. Now here we are 2023 going into 2024 and we are still arguing about the same thing. He says all i care about is money. I said i care about a security blanket i can't rely on him. If i get sick and can't work our bills are in jeopardy. I want it to be like i get sick or vice versa we are able to support each other. He does uber but to be honest that's not a real job. It's good for a side hustle but shouldn't be your main priority & he only does it if he needs money for w33d or drinks. It's soo heartbreaking because i love him so much. But im at the point to where i believe he's genuinely holding me down in life. I keep telling myself it will get better and i don't want to leave the life i built in florida but this financially stress on my mind is too much. The car insurance got cut off due to me losing my grandma and now it's racking to 500 and i am stressing about it cus now my name is on the insurance since i got my license and i don't want to get it suspended but im am just not able to pay it right now and he doesn't give a fuck.. he doesn't he says well it is what it is.... i think it's time for me to close this chapter