If she waited to get in shape till after the breakup or in another relationship, did she even wanted do it for you?

Probably could’ve phrased it better but the question is if a woman waited till she was single or in a relationship with another man to get in shape vs. than with you, did she even care about your opinion of her? Granted if you were a supportive partner who advocated for her physical fitness as something important to you, why would she wait to put her best foot forward AFTER y’all aren’t together anymore? Is it complacency or the fact they’re newly fresh in the dating market? It must suck to see your ex give their best version of themselves to someone else.