(19F) Dealing with comments on getting married and pregnant young

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I (19F) am married to my wonderful husband. We do have an age gap but I love him. I am dur in 2 months. Its our first baby and am so excited. Even when we got married I had people like my ‘ friends ‘ telling me how I shouldn’t do this because he’s older or because am not old enough. I didn’t listen to them and now we lead a very quiet and traditional lifestyle. Again had people tell me not to have kids until am in my 30s. I got pregnant right after our marriage and I have never felt so happy. I love to take care of my baby (by taking care of myself) and my husband. I love how I bake him something he likes everyday after dinner. I love how excited he is to have more babies with me. I can’t wait to be pregnant again ( I realised how much I love being pregnant ) I feel like my life’s purpose is to serve him and bring life into this world. We plan on having so many kids.

Even though I hear negative comments on the daily, I am happy. Most of the women commenting on my life are feminists who tell me women should make their own choices. But when I made my choice to cook, clean and bake for him everyday or to have his babies its suddenly not okay. Its very hypocritical. I just wanted to post this to remind anyone who is hesitant to follow the path I followed. I don’t have to worry about a thing but my husband and my babies. I am very happy. Don’t listen to the negative comments because if this is how you feel you should do it.

Posted Dec 6, 2023, 2:40 PM UTC

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