maybe probelm?

i fell asleep with more feminine clothes on, a large hoodie, shorts, and thigh highs, and at some point my mom came in with the dog to put him in with me and idk if she saw what i was wearing, she i havent heard from her all day and I’m worried because, she doesn’t care that im pan, but she seems transphobic to me, considering some of the things shes said, so i probably cant really explain what a ‘femboy’ is without her going nuts about transgender people. do i just not mention it whatsoever unless she says something, or do i ask her about it?