Where do I draw the line with my Dom

He’s never yelled at me before. I’ve been unable to communicate with him very well recently due to my time of the month being a huge trauma inducer for me. I’ve pulled away and acted out, I guess with the hopes of getting his attention and letting him decipher my pain and comfort me. Now. I do understand what I just said is a recipe for disaster and that communication should never falter like I allowed it to, but that immaturity I just displayed is partly an aspect of age regression for me. Being able to pout is not something I’ve been able to do in my life and so I have to admit I crave that sort of worry and attention from my Dom. Anyway, my Dom (who I’ve loved up to this point,) 1: punished me today after I got home crying with a session exploiting my period and forcing me to touch myself while he pried into my trauma of my dad abusing me (this is something we’ve played with before and I’ve been okay with,) but then he absolutely blew up at me when I went quiet after and wasn’t receptive of his aftercare. It’s just been a hard few days. I’ve safeworded a couple times with no explanation. Today I started bawling and shaking in public. But anyway, just an hour ago I was a dead silent corpse on the phone, as he put it, while he was angrily trying to figure out what the fuck was going with me. Should I tolerate this behavior from my Dom?