intrusive thoughts as dreams??

i have a lot of pedophilic and incest intrusive thoughts, i struggle a lot because it’s disgusting and it makes me feel sick and i’m only starting to realize that it has nothing to do with my values as a person. sometimes i have dreams where these thoughts present themselves and i wake up feeling really disgusted with myself even though i know i can’t control it and it doesn’t reflect who i am as a person. i am wondering if anyone has intrusive thoughts like these and how they deal with them. i am wondering if i talked about this with others they would understand.