I (M 22) am worried about my relationship with my gf (F 22)

Should I (M 22) be worried about my gf (F 22)

Me and my gf have been together for about 9 months and I recently learned that she is also into girls and that she had had a crush on this girl (let’s call her Jessie) in high school since 9th grade.When my gf had recently opened up to me about this girl she used to have a crush on she swore she was over it and that it didn’t matter anymore. Jessie texted her over Instagram this one day a couple years ago telling her that she had a crush on her but my gf never responded even tho she had had a crush on her since 4 years before that because her family is super strict and she doesn’t feel comfortable being with a girl because it would cause a lot of issues in her life with her family not approving. Like I stated earlier she swore to me that she was over the crush but however I found out something interesting recently. When my gf thought I was in my room with my headphones on playing the PlayStation she was talking to her friends on FaceTime in another room. When I left out the room to go to the bathroom I heard her telling two of her friends she was on the phone with to try and request the girl Jessie as a friend on this new social media app where you post photos of yourself or whatever you want. She didn’t want to do it herself but she wanted them to add her so she could see all the stuff she was posting. Does this mean she still has feelings for her? Can she really be into me and in love with me if she’s still having lingering eyes for this girl?

SN: idk if this is important but for the past 5 months or so we’ve been kinda longish distance like I had to move 3 hours away to save money for a little while and we see each other about once a month for a weekend.

Posted Jan 1, 2024, 4:15 AM UTC

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