My (f22) boyfriend (m22) reminds me of his family's birthdays and to wish them when I have never forgotten in the time we have been together.

His mom's birthday is today, I wished her a happy birthday and all the sweet stuff as soon as I woke up before work. I finish work, I give him a call because we normally call during the day. I can barely talk about my day before he asks me yet again, have you wished 'his mom' happy birthday? If you haven't, you should. I have always done it. The two and a half years we have been together I have always. Each and every single one of his family members. His brother, done without reminder. I also went out in the cold to pick something up in the cold for him. His sister I wrote the sweetest handwritten card this year. He reminds me as if I have forgotten to. I have never once forgotten anyone's birthday. He knows it. Yet, he's so insistent on me wishing each and every single one of them, but some of them didn't bother to with me. He didn't remind THEM to wish me. His friend we talk to and play games with a few days a week? He didn't bother. Did my boyfriend tell him to? Not a peep. He forgot my boyfriend's birthday, I reminded him. I spend my damn fucking shifts proving myself that I am something. I am so damn tired trying to have to prove that I care, that I am not careless, thoughtless to my own boyfriend. I want a boyfriend, I don't want a secretary.