I’m sad bc my girlfriend and I broke up

Reflecting on the relationship, I can see that she was not ready for a committed relationship & has a lot of serious trauma she needs to work through if she would ever like to be truly ready. Right now she didn’t have the capacity to love like I would like to be loved in a relationship.

It was very very hard to let go, but I realize it’s for the better of both of us right now. And of course, I have things I can work on as well. I’ve learned I probably have an anxious attachment and will definitely need some therapy to see progress on that.

I guess this is all just to say that, sometimes the person we want to give love to the most, just isn’t ready to receive and give in return. And that’s ok. We’re all on a different journey. It doesn’t say anything bad about me as a person such that I am unlovable, it just means it wasn’t the right time for me and that specific person. And I hope she can find any healing that she is searching for, because I really did care for her.

Just a post venting I guess, it’s nice to have people online who you know listen & are supportive. Stay strong friends.