Why is it so rare to see feminine bi men dating women?

I'm an aforementioned very feminine bi man (the man part is a little questionable but that's beside the point), and I tend to date women because I'm way too picky about men. The women I date usually really like my freedom of gender expression and usually either like or don't mind the fact that I'm bi. However, it really struck me today that I've never really seen a relationship like most of mine have been. Sure, I've seen bi guys with men, but seeing femmeXfemale bi relationships are just completely nonexistent to me. Not even necessarily femme, just "visibly queer"

There are a ton of examples on the "opposite" side (can't think of a better word, ik that's not completely right), where it's a visibly queer bi woman with a man. There's even a term for that with the whole "bi wife energy" thing.

Is this really as rare as I think? In particular, I don't think it's as relevant if people on this subreddit are visibly queer bi men in relationships with women, because that's an extremely biased sample because this sub is probably 99% queer - i care more about if people here have seen other relationships like this outside of themselves, especially in spaces that aren't explicitly queer.