AITAH if I tell my husband that he needs some boundaries with his friend?

My husband and I have been married for 6 months, and I think we’re getting along well. We communicate effectively and always laugh together.

The problem is that my husband’s best friend doesn’t seem to know boundaries. It’s not that I don’t like him, but this friend seems slightly different from his other friends. For example, he brought a friend (not very close to my husband, but they know each other) to our apartment, and they’ve been watching TV until now. They don’t seem to leave past 12 am, and they’re watching a game. I can’t sleep right now, and I don’t feel like I am getting any rest in my own apartment since this evening (they arrived around 5 pm).

They also smoked weed. My husband’s friend bought it when he was in Colorado and asked my husband to do it together whenever he came to the apartment. I heard that they don’t take weed seriously in America, but I am from Korea, and I feel like it’s like a drug. I was a little angry with him, so he said he wouldn’t do it again. He listens to me well anyway.

Another reason I can’t understand this best friend is that he has newborn twin baby girls now. They are 3 months old. Shouldn’t he be taking care of the babies instead of hanging out with friends? I think I will be really mad with my husband if he stays all evening when we have newborn twins. I feel sorry for his wife because we are great friends.

AITAH if I tell my husband that he needs some boundaries with his friend? I will not allow the best friend’s friend, who is not even close to my husband, to visit us again because this guy is even more unpleasant to me. I was just in my room, and my husband said he was tired, and this guy was like, “Did you guys f**k last night?” I don’t know; it’s just like the things my husband’s other friends say.