Narrow vs wide question (oiled leather boston)

I've had a pair of suede bostons in 41 narrow for two years or so and I love them. They broke in and grew to fit perfectly. I got a new pair of oiled leather bostons for Christmas this year. They were gifted to me in 41 regular, but they seemed too wide compared to my suede bostons. I returned them and opted for a 41 narrow in the oiled leather. I'm wearing them now and they are a bit tight, I have to tap the front of my foot once on the ground to get my foot seated in the proper place. Will the oiled leather break in to be comfortable like the suede version? How tight is too tight?