I made a game to help my fiancée dominate me in the bedroom

Hi Reddit, I am in a long term relationship and I have a very strong desire to be dominated in the bedroom. My partner is more than willing to help me out in that regard, but by her own admission she doesn't quite have the imagination for it.

The problem is, I don't really feel that dominated if we are mostly doing things I suggest. For example, when she asks me what I want to do and I say something like "I want you to sit on my face and rub your clit against my tongue until you cum. I want you to treat me as if I am not even there, treat me like my tongues only purpose is to make you cum." She is more than obliging to ride me hard and enjoy every minute of it, but I don't feel truly dominated because I don't feel like I have lost any control.

So rather than sit around and complain about it, I thought I would be pro-active and make a way for me to feed her a bunch of dirty ideas and for her to do them to me in a way where she has all the control.

So I present to you my femdom I have spent the last three weeks developing. I hope all you other want-to-be dominant women and submissive men enjoy it.

But more importantly, if any of you have any feed back or ideas for games, we would both love to hear your suggestions.

Bonus points.

Make your own rules. 1 point.

Because this game is all about you being in control, every decision has to be up to you. When we are playing a game and things don't you the way you want, (eg, the roll of the dice, or toss of a coin) you can change the rules to suit yourself.

The games.

Make me beg. 1 point.

Make me beg to suck your boobs, make me beg to taste your pussy, make me beg to give you an orgasm. The slower the game and the more I have to beg the better. Build it up slowly by making me beg for little things first.

Denial level 1. 1 point.

Use me as a sex slave. Make me kiss you all over. Make me strip you down. Make me get you so wet all you want to do is jump my bones. And then make me stop. Tie me up. Tell me you want to do the rest yourself. Then have a loud and long orgasm with me tied up next to you, watching the whole time.

Denial level 2. 2 points.

You show me exactly how much you don't need me. You do all the lead up work to an orgasm by yourself. Play with your boobs, strip yourself off, and then finish yourself off. Make sure to tell me how great your orgasm is. Taunt me by giving me a running commentary on what I am missing out on.

Denial level 3. 3 points.

I am tied up. You lie next to me and browse r/ladyboners or something similar (the dirtier the better, you will get an extra point for either looking at nudes or watching porn.) Remember, this is about me feeling out of control, so if I can you do the whole process, from getting aroused, to getting naked to getting off, all without my input it would be extremely hot for me.

The coin. 1 point.

Heads or tails. Heads, I give you head, tails, you sit on my face.

The blindfold 2 points.

You blindfold me, you have my pre cum on one finger, your pussy juices on the other. You make me taste it and if I am wrong, you get oral sex of your choosing, but if I can guess correctly, I get 5 mins of oral with you using just your mouth and tongue. It wouldn't be fair if I got things all my way, so afterwards you have to give me a big sloppy kiss and you have to tell me to taste myself like the dirty boy I am. Keep in mind you can change the rules to suit yourself.

Tease and please. 1 point.

You get an egg timer. I go down on you, and if you don't cum within 2 minutes, you tease me mercilessly for the same time. The timer goes up by 2 minutes each time until you cum. Under no circumstances am I allowed to cum. You may tease in any manner you wish, either with manual stimulation like hands or oral but you can also use other methods of teasing such as dirty talk or flaunting yourself in front of me.

Options for how I am allowed to cum:

Something mean. 1 point.

I am not allowed to get naked, and either you or I make me cum with while wearing clothes.

Something dirty. 1 points.

You suck me off, but leave my cum in your mouth. You slowly spit it out onto my chest, inches from my watching face.

Something teasing. 1 point.

You rub your pussy on me until I cum, but I am not allowed under any circumstance to enter you.

Something controlling. 1 point.

I am tied up so that I cannot move at all. My feet and my hands must be tied down. You get to use me however you want.

Something dicey. 1 point.

Get a dice out of a board game. Roll it. Whatever the number is, that is how many times you must edge me before I can finally cum. Keep in mind you can change the rules to suit yourself.

Something extra. 3 points.

Tie me up. Be mean in all the right ways. I want you to squeeze my balls, lightly rake your teeth across my dick, gently biting it as you go. Pull my erection downwards, away from my body. Make me feel the stretching. Give it some slightly harder than gentle slaps. If I am lucky you will let me cum. If not, you can play another game.

Something by you. 2 points.

You may have realised the general theme of these orgasms. There are three things that I would like to feel dominated. So for this one, you get to make your own punishment for me. The three things I need are:

1. I need to have a good orgasm.
2. I need to either have something slightly mean happen, or have something nice within my grasp and not be able to have it.
3. I need to feel as if you have total control over how I cum.

Points for you.

15 min Massage 1 point 15 min Massage with oil 2 points Massage boobs for 5 mins 1 point Oral sex until you are satisfied 2 points Wash and condition you hair for you 3 points I sit in the corner of the lounge, so sit in front of me. I massage you for the length of one half hour show 2 points The equivalent of any sex act above, but with our positions reversed costs the same amount of points. Eg if you wanted to play the blindfold and taste game it would cost you 2 points.

TL;DR Made a game to help my SO dominate me in the bedroom, more ideas would be welcomed.