I'm 40 but I don't understand what need women ?

I mean I tried the gym in my 20' and even we I was very strong I could only impressed and make an illusion for the women on the beach and then nothing. Then I tried to work and spend money, invite for travelling or shopping but it didn't help. I tried humour or getting interested in what they like but it didn't help. I tried to be romantic and gentleman but it didn't work, I tried to be direct and brutal but it didn't work either. Damned what the fuck ? And the most fun is if I stop to work on one of those aspect then a woman will probably let me know she isn't happy or satisfied about it. I'm so tired of that sick game. Actually I feel so sad I just don't want to have kids in the future: they will be the same sad or even more. I don't know what's the point of being alive sometimes. lol