I [M 24] broke off relationship with married woman [37] but still love her. How do I fix it?

Posted Mar 18, 2013, 8:28 PM UTC

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dcolt•

Get your head around the fact that it's over.

And while you're at it, get your head around the fact that that's a good thing.

You were just a fling for her. When she saw you were falling for her, she did the logical thing and cut you off. Which is her doing as well by you as she can in this situation.

It's time to man up and let go. Quit texting her, and quit stalking her on FB.

You don't want to be creepy that guy.

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lowspeedlowdrag•

Just be happy she's pushing you away before her husband found reason to toss your dumb ass off a bridge.

You love a married woman who apparently has no great sense of commitment. How did you see that ending?

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choleandthebrian•

I'm sorry but you weren't her husband, she has one of those. You unfortunately don't have the same importance to her.

Move on to someone who will give you the time and respect you want. Who isn't married.......

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dangertime•

Get your head out of your ass and let it go. Ignoring all of the unethical, terrible choices you've already made, it's just not worth pursuing. She was treating you in a way that made you feel unfulfilled and just plain bad. At best she was stringing you along. She's given no indication that she has further interest in you, or that her treatment of you would change if somehow magically got back together.

Be an adult. Cut contact and move on.

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[deleted]•

She's married and she's not going to leave her husband for you, so get over it & move on.

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CoomassieBlueMOD•

Please repost on r/BreakUps. Thanks.

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