What should I do about my gf? M29 F24

So me and my gf hit a rough patch. So basically she got mad at me that I got a uber eats delivery at like 2am and it woke her up because of this and other stuff she and her roomates wants me to just see her for a bit and go home to sleep at my place. The problem is I want to move to Texas and I was putting it off until she got her green card. She's waiting for the biometrics appointment letter rn but I'm not sure how long it will take for her to get the actual green card and even then after she gets it she would have to work like 4 weeks legally So she can get rid of all the benefits she has. So basically what that means because of my work schedule is that I'll really be seeing her once a week until who knows when and I'm putting off moving to Texas because of her. (The reason I want to move to the Texas area So bad is because there's a lot of good paying jobs in my field and rn I'm doing something not even related to that lol). I told her I'm just going to end things and she said I was making a bid deal out of nothing, but she didn't think about how it would actually work in practice. We've been dating for almost a year now but I broke things off because i just didn't it was good idea for me. Seeing her just once a week for who knows how long? And on top of that I'm holding off my career and where I actually want to live for her? Didn't think it was worth it, but I'm having second thoughts. I'm meeting with her tomorrow to get some clothes and other stuff I left at her place but I'm not sure. What do you think would be the best course of action? Do you think I'm making a big deal out of nothing? How would you proceed?

Posted Mar 10, 2024, 2:50 PM UTC

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