Regretting marriage and wanna be my own person

I (F19) and my Husband (M21) Have been together for 5 years and got married June 2023. I love him with all my heart and he’s a great husband, he joined the military and decided to get married for obviously love and being able to be together and the benefits me and him would receive. We moved to Texas and all my family is in Alabama, it’s been about 5 months since then and I am completely miserable, I have no friends compared to all the ones I had back home, I miss my siblings and my parents. I miss my job since the ones I’ve had out here have been horrible, the people are rude and I’m genuinely just not happy, I also just can’t stand being around my husband anymore and it’s eating me alive. Maybe I’m not ready for marriage, I fantasize about going back home, continue online school and live in an apartment with my friend while I work and they do too. I don’t know what to do, I’ve asked him if he’d be okay with me going back home and live/work there for a while and his response was getting drunk, melting down and saying “if you wanna ruin our marriage go ahead”. I am stuck..I don’t know what to do, is it a rough patch? Should I give it more time? Or should I bitethe bullet and accept maybe we aren’t meant to be. Any advice appreciated.