Quick question about the first date.

I am 26 y.o guy dating 23 y.o girl, Norwegians in Norway (if this is of any relevance). After our first date today, I'm left with a few questions.

I picked her up at 20.00 exactly, chatted the entire 15 min. drive to the town, about work, school, non turbulent childhood and other light stuff. We chatted a while before ordering dinner, chatted through the entire dinner, about the same stuff including where we were from, volleyball(i met her at volleyball practice, we're in the same club. I do feel more of-, but not necessarily most of the chatting was about me. I tried to ask her as much i could about her job, but it seems less eventful than mine she works in a kindergarden, and i work as a social worker in a few different houses/apartments specified for their certain needs, dealing with many varied combinations of drugs and psychic illnesses or psychic illness alone. But she was open about the challenges she had in the kindergarden and how to handle difficult parents. I we varied from having a serious tone in the conversation, when talking about e.g childhood friends being in trouble, and a funny tone. At times, I feel i may have wander off a bit to the 'silly' category, but she followed me there, following up with silly stuff of her own so I'm not to worried about that. We were finished eating, sat a while longer, then left at 22.30. I paid of course. I drove her home, chatted in the car. We really never stopped talking through the date. I asked if i could follow her in. We sat and talked at her place for a while. til 23.30 to be exact. I said it was late and that i should leave. I never really made up my mind about if i should kiss her or not. But when it came to that point, she kind of threw herself over me and gave me a tight hug. Then i left.

I work all the time, combined with school, this gives me no time. Though i made it clear to her i work a lot, i can also take a week of when i want since i have a flexible job.

So I don't date much. Not since over a year ago.

I think she's awesome..

  • What in the world does she think..?
  • What does the hug mean? Do you kiss on the first date? Do i kiss on the next date?
  • Did I talk too much? Did I talk to much about myself? Was I too open?

I tried being 'true/myself' the entire time, but i tried holding back when i became too silly/funny. Was I too silly?

  • When do i contact her again?

I'm sorry if this was too much rambling, but any answers of any kind, in the form of rambling if necessary, is most welcome. Thank you!

Am i in love...? :)

Posted Apr 13, 2013, 10:35 PM UTC

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