Iphone 4s stuck... Need help =/

Alright, so i have an Iphone 4s that is jailbroke on 5.1.1

I've been wanting to upgrade and rejailbreak, found out quick that its not as easy as "reset and renew"...

Well, it's been crashing and going into safe mode here lately... and i thought "i'll just upgrade while its in safe mode" >.> i cant get it out of safe mode now, it just says to connect to itunes... so i do... and then it says to restore and update... so i do...

I get the 3194 error code.. Now i dont know what to do... and my Iphone wont respond to me doing anything, whether i do it from my computer or try to get it into DFU mode or out of safe mode or anything...

=/ i just want my phone back...