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Lesbian couple here! We created this throwaway especially for this post. We are possibly embarking on our first "foursome" experience next weekend. Would love to hear your stories... the good, the bad, the ugly. Entertain us, please! More details inside...

So... pretty sure neither of us ever expected to be in this situation. The thought of being with 1-2 other people in addition to my partner has always been a fantasy of mine. But I just assumed it would never happen in real life (and wasn't entirely sure I wanted it to). My partner and I have discussed it a great length, and it turns out we both have very similar boundaries and very similar needs/wants/concerns. We've been propositioned by a guy friend and his wife to try some sexy time while together next weekend (they are both bisexual). We don't have qualms about being open with one another, and we are setting boundaries before anything ensues. We all agree that we should just hang out, have fun, and just see where it leads.

Now for the thing my partner is most nervous about. The guy involved is a guy who had sex with my gf during a break-up period of our relationship. Things got shitty... but things were also MUCH different back then. For one, we were both Christian and in the closet... therefore, trying our damnedest to ignore the fact that we were hopelessly lesbian. I basically flipped my shit. Things went down. But we are ALL friends now, we've all discussed it, and I am certain that this will not be an issue for me. I know that she loves me, and he loves his wife.

We are curious to hear your stories. For those of you who have been in a foursome, was it everything you thought it would be? Did you have any embarrassing moments? What went right? What went wrong? And most importantly... would you do it again?

Posted Apr 14, 2013, 12:33 AM UTC

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