[UPDATE] I'm on chemo and the SO is being demanding about sex.

HI, all. Thanks so much, first of all- for some reason, you just need to hear that your complaints/concerns aren't as outlandish as your partner says they are. You guys are frickin' awesome. Thank you again.

We had a really long talk this morning. I was brutally honest with him- told him I didn't think I loved him anymore, didn't feel like I was getting the amount of support I needed, and that I was leaving him. Was he relieved? Who knows? Those of you that suggested he was behaving this way to be the "bad guy" were probably on the right track. He didn't want the guilt of dumping the girl on chemo. So now he doesn't have that guilt.

We live in the 'burbs of a large city in the northeastern US, where real estate is ridiculous and our lease is another two months. So we're going to do the roommate thing for now, and in two months one of us will move out (probably him). I'm okay with this arrangement.

Thank you again for making me laugh and cry, and for showing me the craziness of my situation with a clarity I just didn't have on my own. You all are why reddit is awesome.