Is my dad sick or…?
I am 20 years old. I have just moved out of my parents house. My dad’s already strange behavior is even stranger. He’s been paying so much attention to what I’m wearing. I just visit my parents so I can see my little sisters and cats but I’m had too much of him.
My dad’s a very toxic person so I’ve never developed any sort of bond or attachment to him. His weirdness started in my adolescence/early teens. Always telling me I look “too good” in certain outfits(I’d say more flattering ones like leggings). When I was 11 or 12, he kept accusing me of masturbating and would purposely do it in front of my mom and other siblings. At that same age I was in the tub with my then 4 year old sister and we let the water out. My sister got out but I was still in and my mom came in and was like “I didn’t know u had boobs?😅” and my dad was like what and came in. I’ll never forget how long he stood there looking at me.
When I was 16, I was doing homework on my dad’s computer. I couldn’t remember this website my science teacher recommended that had answers/explanations. So I went to the history for the day prior: it was littered with teen/barely legal p*rn. I immediately logged off and just did my other hw.
When I was 17/18 I was groomed and viciously abused by a man my dad’s age. My father called me tainted and damaged goods and went and told half my family what happened. Furthermore, I went on a date last month with a very,seemingly, nice boy. The date ended with him physically trying to force me into sex.I was able to escape but when I told my parents, my dad literally blamed it on me and never took me to file a police report.
Now recently, the last 4 times I visited I keep catching him scanning my body. He then starts telling me that if I get negative attention or stalked , it will be on me for what I’m wearing. Mind you I visit them after I get off work and have showered and switched into my pajamas(not revealing or tight). Where’s my mother in all this? A major enabler. I’m hanging on and visiting for my little sisters. They r so happy to see me but jeez……..
I’m going to cut back my visits or just try to get my sisters for a few hours. I honestly think my dad is sick in the head. What do u think?
P.S no my dad has never touched me. Just weirded me out
Posted May 8, 2024, 1:41 AM UTC