Being Trans Allowed me to end a Toxic Relationship

Vent

Me and her have been dating for about two years. We broke up and got back together once in our relationship. In the relationship, she hasn't been the best to me. She's been extremely manipulative towards me, the first time we'd broken up she spread rumors about me in school saying i had abused and cheated on her (i did not). I got back with her because she promised me she changed (she did not). I had been scared to break up with her, because I've almost gotten into fights with people because of those rumors and didn't want it to happen again. So, I suffered through it.

My gf found out I was trans by going through my phone, she told me "I don't know how I feel about it, I've always known you as you." As if I care what she FEELS about it. It was not her decision, so, I took hold of this golden opportunity and broke up with her.

I feel both extremely happy and sad at the same time. Happy because, well, I got away from an abusive relationship. Sad because I don't know if I'll find a relationship again. Mixed feelings

Thanks for reading! ❤️

Posted May 10, 2024, 12:54 AM UTC

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