Just had our first MFM a week and a half ago. My Question is about titles...

As the title says, jwe just recently had our first MFM threesome. I knew going into it that it was what I wanted and was turned on at the thought of sharing Her. Almost an "Look what I have on a regular basis" to any guy we added

My question is.. the Hotwife scenario scenario turns me on. However, I am not into the cuckolding aspect or ever not participating. Yet, I am turned on by every other aspect besides those two things.

I guess it comes down to wanting to give her the ultimatum pleasure plus what I like so it's a win win I guess. At the end of the day... I like being in control, watching her enjoy it but ultimately hold the keys to it all if that makes sense? Is there a kink name for this.. because I feel like "Hotwife" just doesn't quite fit the bill, especially when reading other stories and comments.