Social Media vs Reality With My Wife

Hello everyone I will try to keep this brief. I am having a difficult time with my wife & our relationship due to her issues with social media. I am not sure what can be done or how I can help if that’s even possible. Please let me know what you think

I am a 25M & my wife is 25F. We dated for three years before getting married late last year. When we first started dating I was young making a ton of money thanks to PS5s so I had my choice with the ladies. I dated around. My girlfriend at the time claimed she was only about me but I saw that she was sleeping around with several other men at the same time as me. I did not care & I have never held that against her.

We have two children together, I purchased a home for us & made her a SAHM. I bring in 160k per year & moved my family away from the city. Lately, we have been having problems regarding our relationship. My wife graduated from college and felt empty without working she felt as if she wasted her time going to college. We were just casually dating the first time she got pregnant with my child & she said she was going to keep the baby whether I was involved or not.

My wife had our second child earlier this year & afterward, she wanted to return to work. We hired her sister to be a full-time babysitter while we both worked. Her sister was the complete opposite of her. She wasn’t my partner so she did not nag or complain about anything at all. Eventually my wife got mad & felt that me and her sister were too close & friendly. She ultimately ended up firing/ kicking her sister out leaving us without a nanny. I would like to say I never even entertained the thought of even attempting anything with her sister. I work from home a lot & she was at home as well.

I cannot have my wife on social media as she will go through every single follower I have and try to make some sort of connection between me & the person. I tell her that she is comparing random women that I do not entertain or have ever even dated to our real lives. I am a big believer in keeping private information off the internet. Every single person that is close to me from my employer to my friends & family knows of my wife. We live together. We share bank accounts I even share my location. The only time I am away is when I’m at work & I come home every single day.

I am not sure what to do or what to think it’s like we are at a stagnant point in our relationship over something that isn’t even real. I delete any woman she’s ever asked me to it’s not an issue. I do not question her or her followers & it’s a ton of men in there. I am secure in myself and our relationship. I’m not sure if she’s the same. Whenever I try to talk about it she ends up screaming and destroying stuff in our home. Any advice helps thank you.