They judge on looks

I recently realized my narc partner used to be mean to me only because of my looks. As a kid and even as an adult when I remember some comments he made about my looks or my body makes me realize that they never appreciated me for my looks and according to him, people who don’t look like him ( my another sibling) should get anything or deserve anything including love, respect, wealth or happiness in life.

It’s so clear that he’s totally against me getting anything but the reason of such discrimination and was never clear to me before I discussed similar issue with a friend and I remembered everything he used to say to me.