43 M4F - at this point i feel like there are no real women here

recently had a disappointing experience while trying to find a good time on here. I really want to let out my urges and fantasies. I’m married and have only ever been with my wife. She has nearly no interest nowadays and when she does, it’s a get it done and over with kinda thing. She is aware of my wants and needs but has no interest. She has given permission to find it elsewhere. Looking for genuine recommendations on how to find a reliable and enjoyable experience in the area!

If you've personally had a positive experience with a professional please share.