Friends left me
Okay to start near the start of 2024 I became friends with Ophelia, Sofia, and Lila. Near the end of the school year Lila started having relations with a older dude by 2 years and for whatever reason me and Sofia thought that this was a really bad decision and it was the last straw due to her other actions like stealing in stores with us and without us being aware, Ophelia had other issues with her so she agreed to drop her. During this time I thought I was being too harsh so I assumed me and Sofia should apologize but just stay acquaintances with Lila, so we did. Also during this time we had a new addition to our friend group and her name was Cholera. Cholera came from a really bad situation where her friends disowned her and one of them texted her boyfriend that she was cheating on him and he believed it (important to note that the one friends father did some really traumatic and terrible things that lead to his suicide and Cholera was one of the only ones to know this and she told the whole friendgroup including me). In the middle of June I was really depressed and I just needed someone to talk to that wouldn’t have any impact if I were to vent to them so I texted Lila and explained that Cholera and Ophelia were pissed at me for bringing up Cholera’s past friend. I ended up telling her about that friends traumatic dad which is where I fucked up. Just this week it turns Out Lila had told Cholera’s previous friendgroup that I had said this and it ended up going back to Cholera. She confronted me in the groupchat and I profusely apologized and explained why. About a couple minutes later they all said that they don’t want to remain friends with me. I just really need advice as to what to do whether I should try to be on good terms or try to earn their friendship back, sorry for the long post.
Posted Jun 24, 2024, 8:35 AM UTC