Is it fucked up for your partner to tell you they lost some respect for you?

So my ex had told me like 3 times during our 8 month relationship he lost some respect for me. This was over when I wouldn’t fall through with what I said I would do. Like he told me to get my passport and it did take me like 4 months to do it but like man we just started dating. Committing to a week long trip that would be planned a few months in advance I was hesitated too, especially when money is tight. then it would be like when I said I wanted to work out and didn’t end up following through or when my grades in school fell because I was told the program I wanted to take after was getting moved 2 hours away and I felt like I wouldn’t make it work cause I didn’t have a car and didn’t wanna move cause I already moved to said place to go to school and the economy it fucked. Idk I just felt like he should have been supportive and communicated in a different way and then to tell me he lost some respect for me. I then felt like he didn’t like me as much and he saw me differently which would give me more anxiety about following through with shit and lost some confidence. Idk thoughts? Lol