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jup1ter3

Any "success stories"?

Advice

Sorry for weird title, couldn't come up with anything better. This is half a vent and half asking for advice.

There is nothing I look forward to more (besides being able to actually start my goddamn transition medically) than finding a woman who I love, marrying her, moving into a house together, and having children with her. And I know that I'm young (turning 18 next month) but I am so scared that it will never happen. That if I manage to find a woman who accepts my height (165 cm) she will be unlikely to want to be with me and start a family with me because I am trans. I don't particularly care for having children that are biologically "mine", I'm perfectly fine with using my brother's sperm, but I'm worried that a potential wife would want to have them with me, which I obviously can't provide.

Has anyone managed to "settle down" and get married with kids? I need some reasurance that it's possible because this is such a huge thing for me, I really want to be a dad in the future.

Posted Jun 29, 2024, 3:44 AM UTC

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