Need Advice: Guy Went MIA After Six Dates, Still on My Mind

Hey everyone,

So, I matched with this guy on Bumble, and we went on six really awesome dates. The last one, we spent the whole day and night at his beach house, cuddling and kissing the entire time.

But after that, his communication slowed down. He said he had some family problems he couldn’t talk about. I figured he wasn’t interested anymore, so I backed off and stopped texting. A week later, he texted to check if I was okay. I said I was just giving him space, he thanked me, and then poof, he vanished.

Sometimes he likes my Instagram stories, but that’s about it. I haven’t been texting him, but he’s still on my mind a lot. I’m still seeing other guys, but he’s always in the back of my head.

Anyone got an explanation? I hate that my avoidant attachment style might be making me judge guys too hard.