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I Need Advice 😩

I (25f) went on a date Monday night to a nice restaurant with a man i met on tinder. (33m) We had a great time and had awesome conversations. I felt a connection between us and definitely wanted to see him again!! He mentioned his ex girlfriend that night and how the break up initiated his change of career that has changed his life. Same for me, although I didnt mention that.

We went out for breakfast this morning and he was showing me videos & photos of cars from the dealership that he wanted to get. We both like cars but I can tell that my mercedes c300 is low status for him. He likes expensive cars and just doesnt seem to impressed by me, which he doesnt need to be but i don’t feel like i meet his standard. Its a little disappointing. He tells me hes attracted to me but i’m just not getting this feeling like i’m anything special to him.

In the videos, there was a girl running around, she was beautiful and cute and i just thought to myself, oh well maybe he reguarly takes women ok these “car dealership dates”

I work at an animal hospital where i work 3 12 hr shifts a week. on my days off, i’m busy working rover. i havent had a day off i’m over 2 weeks to decompress and get my life together. i lied and told me. worked 4 days at the hospital because he was saying when he was broke he worked 7 days a week. i’m very traditional and believe im working hard enough. but he had to tell me my schedule is so easy. i just don’t feel like he appreciates me at all or even sees me. he had to boost me on working 14 he days to make my 12 hr shifts be nothing. i’m debating seeing this man again. what would you do?

Posted Jul 24, 2024, 3:07 PM UTC

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