ONE red flag...just one

Okay, if you had to pick ONE red flag you missed or denied was a problem from early on in your relationship with your narcissist, what would it be?

Just one. It could be the biggest red flag, the first, or the most impactful. Whatever you'd like.

The one red flag I denied was a problem was covert narc husband's absolute refusal to initiate sex. I had no idea that was a harbinger of the fact he didn't like affection, touch, closeness, or sex.