I am having a dilemma. My husband and I are getting divorced and my Amazon is very bonded to him, a bit more than me. Need advice on how to proceed:

I’m trying to figure out if it would be best to cold turkey it once I’ve moved out (across the country), or if we should do FaceTimes. He is aware that FaceTimes are live and not recorded videos.

I’m afraid that doing FaceTimes might make it harder on him. And maybe cold turkey would be harder on him.

One thing I can say is that 8 years ago (shortly after I inherited him, so he’s dealt with sudden disappearance of his person, my dad, before) him and I went away for 6 or 7 days, I had a friend stay there with him. After the second day she said he would not eat. We did a FaceTime and she said he started eating again.

But we also eventually came home so the FaceTimes were a buffer, not a substitution.

Thanks for your help in advance