Is it weird?
So I have been dating my gf (26F)for 6 months now…I (22F) have been on a journey of figuring what I want to do in my career or at least what my next move in my life is for the past year. Not really much has come up for me besides going to college next year (boring)…but on the side I have been applying to airlines (no luck yet) because travelling for a career has been appealing to me. Well my gf works as photographer at a cruise line…and we basically only started talking when I posted a poll on my Instagram story for good camera recommendations and she responded to that (she recommended a sony haha…the rest is history-thats how she slid in the dms lol). So at the time when I posted that poll I was really trying to get into photography and was considering getting a camera for real…hence I was looking for suggestions from my followers; cause I know quite a few who are photographers including her. Anyways… soon after we started dating, I thought it would be weird if I still tried to pursue photography, especially if I tried to also work on a cruise ship as well…like her , you know? But the pay is so good and it would literally change my life in some way, I would be able to save up for my future plans AND travel. I asked her about what her thoughts are if I ever applied to work on a cruise ship and we “worked” together…(I didn’t say specifically for the photographer role, I just generalised the question) she said she doesn’t think its weird at all. So now im thinking damn why dont I give it a shot? Is it weird or am I crazy? Why does it feel weird, I don’t want to “steal” her flow…😭
Posted Aug 2, 2024, 11:24 PM UTC