A former crush (21 years ago), just ran into my Dad and asked about me.

I met this lovely lady at my Dad’s hometown in Jalisco Mexico, we used to visit maybe once or twice a year; one of my cousins introduced us.

We talked a lot in the phone (we lived like 12 hours away from each other) and even exchanged letters 🙈; she was/is a small town girl, a very lovely woman.

We liked each other but she had been with her boyfriend like forever, at that point it was up to me maybe to steal her from him, she was willing; but that meant I had to bring her with me, and I didn’t feel ready for that kind of commitment.

The next time I went to visit, I looked for her and I actually showed up at her house; she was mortified ‘cause she was afraid that her bf would find out; we talked for a while and then I left. The next day before I left she went to my family’s place and we talked a bit, she actually hugged me and kissed me on the cheek. ☺️

We briefly met one more time, and we saw each other like a good 7 years after that; I was recently divorced and I went to my Dad’s hometown and took my then 4 year old daughter with me. There was a bunch of people on the town square, but we caught a glimpse of each other, she was with her husband (I assume) and a child, she did secretly wave 👋🏽 🤭.

I got married again two years after that, and got divorced like three years later 🤣; I actually saw her again but she didn’t see me and I opted not to talk to her because she was with her family.

So my parents just came back from Mexico and my mom asks if I have any friends in my Dad’s town, I said “not anymore I don’t”; my Dad said “… asked me if I was your Dad, and asked if you were married, I told her you had already divorced twice 🙈, she asked me to tell you that she said Hello”.

I was definitely not expecting to hear from her, but I’m glad I did; I’ve never forgotten about her; we never even kissed, it was so pure.

I might not see her again, but I would love to see her and talk to her; I don’t know what’s her situation is.

God bless that lovely lady.