It's not just the infrequent sex

I think what most gloss over when they think about DBs is that when you actually do have "intimacy" it's never what you want. Getting this person to want to have sex with me is like trying to climb a vertical wall that's been lathered with oil. And if I somehow get over this obstacle the "sex" is just awful now.

I'm trying to do everything I can for her pleasure but it's to no avail. She won't let me eat her out, she won't let me finger her. She doesn't want long foreplay. she won't do anything other than missionary and by missionary I mean her laying there like a fucking corpse. If almost like she just wants me to get it over with. (I'll come back to that point) I also recently learned that she threw away ALL her lingerie. I've been begging her to wear her lingerie and she would always have an excuse. Now I know why..

Going to back to her wanting to just get it over with. On several occasions she would say "are you done yet" , "can you hurry up", and my personal favorite "God, why the fuck do you last so long" as soon as she cums she just wants it all over. Her reasoning is that "I'm done already, you need to finish with me and not just try to prolong it" she literally couldn't care less. She's said to me before you don't have to nut Everytime we have sex.... But we barely have sex and you want me not to cum when we finally do?

I think what drives me off the wall the most is when I read stories of HL women who would do anything for their men to touch them. I would do anything for her to gain her libido back - I know it's never going to happen though..