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SuperWhaleBen

Advice on going to show alone (19th August - Wembley - Front Left Standing)

Hi there, I hope this is the right kind of place to pose this question but I have been thinking about this a lot recently and I think it would really help to get some advice.

So although I am of course over the moon that I was able to get a ticket to the Eras Tour I was only able to get a single ticket meaning I am attending the concert on my own. I will be in Front Left Standing Night 7 at Wembley (19th of August) Now ordinarily I am quite comfortable in spending time on my own and enjoying my own company however with this I am a little nervous for a few reasons.

My main concern is that I am very aware that I am quite a tall guy in his early 20s, A great beauty I see with Taylor and her concerts is that it is, and as it should be, a safe space for women and young girls to let loose and have the best night of their lives, and I hope that is what it is for myself as well. Knowing this and being aware of this, I am conscience that I really don't want to disturb this for anyone being a guy and ordinarilly maybe a bit out of place in this crowd. Of course if I was able to go with friends it would be different because I would be with people and no one would probably bat an eye. The fact I am going alone though makes me think that it could make people feel uncomfortable and that is absolutely the last thing I want.

I have been a huge fan of Taylors for years now and although I may not be the streotypical demographic of fans, I want nothing more to be able to go into that concert in 10 days and have the time of my life; dancing to the songs, singing with other fans, trading bracelets, talking to people and vibing in the queue before. Does anyone have any advice on how I could potentially achieve this or make this easier for myself without coming off as weird or creating uncomfortableness with anyone. Or is it probably just better off to stick to myself and enjoy the concert on my own to avoid this problem to begin with.

Posted Aug 8, 2024, 9:18 PM UTC

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