19F [F4a] Nashville - can someone tell me how to masturbate the best way?

I recently just got into touching myself, as it was very forbidden and taboo in my house growin up. I never learned about any of this stuff but now I kind of want to?! I’ve been searching around looking for advice lol, any tips? I’ve tried looking for video tutorials but they’re kinda freaky lol, so I guess I prefer words. It doesn’t feel “good” when I do it now, am I missing something? Please help a frustrated girl out haha