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26 [M4F] #Germany #Online Hopeless romantic, tall girl enthusiast and traditional man looking for a muse! (LTR)

NSFWM4F Germany / Online

It seems like only a minority of people like to indulge in meaningful conversations and connections. I know that anything casual will not make me happy. I need someone I can guide, be proud of, yet also inspired by. I want to help you become the best version of yourself, while I embrace the comfort of your company. I want to be the person you look up to, while you're the person I look forward to. If I were to describe the vibe I'm looking for, I'm picturing a crazed, yet caring artist who is patting the head of his beloved cat.

If this sounds even remotely appealing to you, I'd be delighted if you kept reading.

-About me physically- Let's be honest with ourselves, the core of attraction is physical. Everybody has their preferences. Here's a brief description to narrow it down for you. I'm 6'1/185cm (barefoot, yes that matters). I have an athletic build which is the result of a drug and alcohol free lifestyle, which is accompanied by a mindful diet and strict workout routine. I have very pale skin, black wavy/fluffy hair and very dark almond shaped eyes. Apparently I have a very soothing voice, I have no idea but I've been told way too many times for it not to have some truth to it! (Oh, and also very big hands^^)

Most of the stuff I wear is black or gray, and I like formal as well as casual clothing. I also own a large perfume collection and follow a meticulous skin care routine^^

-Interests- More on the geeky side to be honest. I love writing obviously.

I like writing poetry, so be prepared for a romantic gesture if I really, really like you. But I also write other stuff which I will not go into detail on here. I like going to events that are centered around my interests. I'd always be down to go to a museum, book fair or any similar event or place.

I'm also a passionate gamer. I play almost everything, from retro games on emulators to BRs and RPGs.

As mentioned before I do love going to the gym too. Used to do a variety of sports, but now it's "just" working out at the gym. I am definitely not a "Gym Bro" though! I used to be a swimmer and I played basketball for several years.

I work part-time and I'm planning some big steps careerwise soon! I have a very clear vision for my future. I'm also fluent in four languages.

-What I'm looking for/Physical preferences-

18+, preferably younger than me. The variety of female beauty knows no limits. However, we like some blossoms more than the others right?

I've come to the realization, that I tend to be more attracted to women with darker hair, and believe it or not, women on the "taller" side (~170-175cm). I fundamentally disagree with the notion that tall girls are in any way less feminine, if anything it's the opposite for me.

These are preferences, not inclusion/exclusion criteria! That does not mean I can't be attracted to you if you're 5'2 and blonde! There's a large variety of body types I consider attractive. If you feel healthy and feminine, you're attractive.

If you don't smoke or drink that's a huge plus as I don't do that either. But please don't be discouraged, everyone has preferences but that doesn't mean there isn't a large variety of things that I find attractive.

-What I'm looking for/Personal compatibility-

I want to spend quality time with you, so it would obviously be great if we share interests.

If you're into any kind of arts and/or have a creative hobby that's a huge plus! I'm looking for someone I can eventually go to a museum with, or long walks through a park at night. You will be my additional motivator for my creative endeavours, my muse after all :)

I need someone who's a great communicator. I'm very talkative and I pride myself on being a great listener. Therefore I'm expecting you to be similar in that regard.

-The BDSM aspect of this-

I am the epitome of a soft dom. Don't get me wrong, I am absolutely will be assertive if I'm convinced it suits the situation. However, I love the soft and affectionate approach to being dominant. It gives me great comfort to provide great comfort. I value the emotional and spiritual aspect of domination as much as the physical, if not more. I want you to feel safe and comfortable in my presence. I want you to feel as if you can let go of everything. If you like protectiveness and (healthy) jealousy I'm most definitely your guy!

Although I don't mind playful teasing, I definitely prefer the less bratty kind (it's OK occasionally). Please understand that I'm not in a hurry for any of that. Trust and communication are both sacred.

This is strictly for a longterm dynamic/relationship! I'm not interested in any casual shit. It would be great if you live in Germany, or at the very least in a similar time zone. This should start as an online dynamic but I'm not opposed to it developing to IRL in the near future. Messages in German are also welcome of course. If you know beforehand that you have an issue with anything mentioned here, just know there are other great guys around here and I wish you good luck, but I'm not your guy.

If I piqued your interest and/or you got any questions, feel free to message me!

Posted Aug 11, 2024, 6:39 PM UTC · locked

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