Manifesting my situationship to SP

Guys, i am trying to manifest my situation to be my sp - 'we are in a secure happy commited relationship' i am seeing a lot of movements too after i have started manifesting. However, as i am not in NC with him, and we are always in touch with each other - sometimes he says or does something (implying this is not serious, we are not sure where this goes) which really puts me off and upsets me. Although I don't let it disturb my manifestation, and keep persisting, i would really love some perspectives on this. How to deal with this? How to look at it in a different way from the point of journey of manifestation or bridging events? Or your general opinion about the situation. Thanks a lot in advance.