How do you move forward with something like this? I'm kinda out of my depth here.
So here's the deal: I (F22) have been on and off seeing this guy (M29) for a couple years. Only issue, we didn't live in the same state so I would see him when I was in town. Over the last 6 months we started seeing each other more. Whenever we would see each other we would hangout, get drinks, he's taken me to a baseball game, introduced me to all his friends at an event. And the sex is incredible. However, recently I have gotten a job and so I moved closer. Beyond having so much fun together recently we have been talking about deeper things, our families, our past, what we want for ourselves, etc. He asked me if I wanted kids lol? Side note.
On the other note we don't talk every day, we only really text when we are making plans or quick questions. Which I don't actually mind that much it feels very mature. We have never talked about what we are, not in any sense.
I don't have much experience in the realm of relationships nor men that much older than me. I also don't know if I want a relationship. I just moved here and I enjoy casual things (especially in a new city). Is this platonic? Does he want more? I do plan on asking him, but I wanted to get some idea here first.
Posted Aug 13, 2024, 11:59 PM UTC