Pregnant after 2 miscarriages

I just found out I’m pregnant after miscarrying twice. The kicker? I am hosting my best friends bachelorette this weekend.

I’m the matron of honor, and I’ve planned everything out. Obviously with lots of planned partying. Now I need to tell her, but I’m so worried about “taking away from her weekend.”

She is nothing but kind and understanding, and she’s been with me through my last two losses. Honestly, this one could be a loss too, which is why I feel bad that it’s happening on her weekend.

Feeling excited, scared, nervous, and guilty.

I have to tell her, it would be extremely obvious if I’m the only one not drinking. Just need some encouragement/advice. As I don’t want to get too excited, I want to be considerate of her weekend, and also “oh my God I can’t believe this is happening!”