I am sad because I can't have sex with someone who's my type. This feels like a stupid problem, but I truly feel sad.

I (Gay M) am not a conventionally attractive person. I am also shy and I think I look innocent (I don't think people know I am interested in sex because I never curse or tell green-minded jokes.) I don't think I am ugly, but I don't think I'm good looking, just average. I look like the typical Filipino, which, unfortunately, in the gay dating community in the Philippines, is considered unattractive. I'm sorry if this sounds racist (I don't want to be racist) but it just seems like most gay and bisexual Pinoys prefer Chinitos and Mestizos. I understand everyone has a type. Additionally, I'm a bit effeminate and mahinhin. Unfortunately, gay and bi Pinoys don't find this attractive as well. This sounds like a stupid problem but I obviously want to have sex with someone I like, but everytime I use dating apps, I don't match with my preferred partner. I don't know. Some people might think I'm shallow, but is it bad to want to have sex? I'm just human, and I sometimes crave for intimacy. This has been a source of constant loneliness these past few months. Just needed to get this off my chest because it's too embarrassing to tell my friends about this.