advice? [long]

My pastor has had multiple sermons on how it’s biblical to move on but for some reason, they’ve just never stuck with me. I’ve found that moving on from things is actually my biggest issue.

I broke up with my ex in junior year (two years ago) and felt okay. we ended things on a bad note but i think i was definitely healing after I broke things off. I was also going through the death of a loved one so he was on the back of my mind. But fast forward to late january of this year, we started talking again. At first I was sure it was going to be just as friends but it somehow became more and we ended up being in a situationship that lasted until late april.

I ended things again and felt good as I held no bad blood towards him. It was just a matter of us not being able to work out. But i feel like it’s taking me even longer to get over him and our relationship. I just don’t know what to do.

i’ve seen people say “give it to the Lord” but I have no idea how.

thank you for reading if you made it this far 🫶