4 and 2.5 is by far the roughest stage

Mine are 4 and 2.5 now and this is the hardest stage yet. We also PCS to a different state so the moving could still be affecting them but omg this is so hard!! My 4 year old just keeps wanting to push me to my breaking point nearly every single day with not listening and my 2.5 year old is going through a sleep regression not wanting to sleep or nap. I’m so ready for this phase to pass!!! 😡😅