DHEAS / estrogen advice?

I’m desperate,

my digestive gut feels destroyed. and i’ve missed my period for two months now. an OBGYN just recently mentioned and urged birth control but i’m horrified of the problems it seems to cause in many woman on and after they’ve stopped. it seems so un-natural as well…

my DHEAS levels had came out a little too high (428dl) as an 18 year old born female. also currently waiting to get labs back for my estrogen. DHEAS elevated levels and lack of period is why i was encouraged to look into birth control. i’m afraid of estrogen dominance. not particularly interested in becoming feminine more physically either in any way which i know should be ideal for a varying of reasons as well as personal preference.

have history of eating disorder but i’ve been actively seeking out ways heal my body and have been directed to peating when doing a quick search over estrogen dominance and how it can affect the body.