Starting a relationship on the eclipse (October 2nd)

So I’m an Aries rising and I’m curious about the upcoming eclipse in libra (my natal 7H)

I was wondering if I do start a relationship on the eclipse (solar) will it end by the paired eclipse in March 2025 ( lunar libra eclipse)

Like I’m quite confused- some astrologers say it’s super bad luck, everything that comes with an eclipse is bad, don’t start anything on eclipses

But then some say that good things can also start on eclipses~I’m soooo confused like genuinely

Like I’m just tryna find out if anything lasting has come about from eclipses ?

Also this eclipse is trine my Neptune, sextile Mercury and squaring Saturn and chiron

Also is it true that let’s say u start something new now, that 18 years later it could end ?? With eclipses again ?

Appreciate any insights!